Being Father’s Day weekend, I have naturally been thinking a lot about my Dad. Although I think about my Dad every day. For those of you who are new to my blog, my Dad went to be with our Lord five years ago after a very courageous battle with cancer.
When someone is so very dear to you, who holds such a special place in your heart, where do you even begin? My Dad was amazing! Even though I’m his daughter, I know I’m not exaggerating — everyone loved to be around my Dad! He was a loving husband and dad, he could always make me laugh, he always greeted me with a smile, he was extremely intelligent, but equally humble. He was a gentleman, he was always willing to help others, and I love that he would root for the underdog.
One of my favorite pictures of my Dad standing by his airplane …
I have so many wonderful stories and memories to share about him! Since it is Father’s Day, I thought it would be appropriate to share some of my favorite times with my Dad — even though there are thousands!
Growing up in California, my Dad worked often worked swing shift. Because he had to commute in traffic, he had to leave for work before I got home from school, and I was already fast asleep when he arrived home — but he made certain that each and every weekend was special! We had a ritual of always getting ice-cream cones, and my Dad always took me to a particular ice cream shop that scooped huge scoops of ice-cream! He always encouraged me to get the double scoop so I could try two flavors, and if I couldn’t finish it, at least I had the wonderful experience of two flavors simultaneously running down my chin!
We made candy together, baked together, ran errands to the car parts store together, and I loved helping him work on his 1971 yellow Volkswagen Beetle! We watched football games, took donuts from the bakery to my grandparent’s house and often went for rides in the “bug” (Volkswagen Beetle) together with my Mom.
Years later, when I was old enough to drive, my Dad taught me how to drive stick-shift in the Volkswagen, then gave me the car when I turned eighteen. I still have that cute little car and think of my Dad each and every time I drive it!
On one particular outing, he was teaching me to shift gears on hills without stalling the car or rolling it backwards. Always encouraging and good-natured, my Dad stayed calm and had me laughing through my tears as I would stall the car more often than I could count! When I finally got the hang of it, my Dad rejoiced with me. Bringing joy to others was one of my Dad’s greatest gifts.
~A happy heart makes the face cheerful … Proverbs 15:13
Dad and I on my Wedding Day …
God truly blessed me with such a wonderful Dad, and I am forever thankful. I love and miss him so much, and I rejoice knowing that one day we will see each other again!
For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life. ~John 3:16
Happy Father’s Day, Dad — you’re the best!
What a lovely tribute to your father! The picture of your dad in his aviator’s hat is wonderful. He looks like he was such a fun person.
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Thank you so much, Sheryl! Yes, I love that picture of my Dad — he would always greet everyone with that same happy smile! He really was so much fun and had an incredible sense of humor! 🙂
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Lovely tribute. People live on through our memories…
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Yes, that’s so true … thank you! 🙂
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So beautiful Anna, and emotional. I am so sorry for your loss. My dad too, has passed, and there is not a day that goes by that I do not miss him and think of him. We both have beautiful memories or our dads’. Have a wonderful special day my friend. x
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Thank you so much, dear Lynne. I’m so sorry about your Dad … our fathers have such a special place in our hearts! 🙂 Love and hugs, sweet friend!
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Beautiful tribute 🙂
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Thank you, dear Freda! 🙂
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My dad is gone too Anna and I think about him all the time. This was a great tribute, and I am glad you have so many memories to reflect on. It sounds like you were his little buddy! That’s cool that you still have the VW!
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Thank you, dear friend. Yes, there are so many wonderful memories of times spent with my Dad. I always loved how he wanted to see others happy — he loved to make people laugh and had such a kind heart. I need to post photos of the VW — I remember going with my Dad and Mom when they bought it from a lady who had immigrated from Germany. My Dad built the engine that is in it now. 🙂
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This is beautiful Anna. Very moving. I’m sure your dad is so proud of you. And what a cool dad too – he taught you how to drive in a stick shift! The photo of your wedding day is wonderful.
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Thank you so much, sweet friend! 🙂 I need to post pictures of the VW. 😉 It’s like part of the family!
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Would love to see those! I love that car!
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They’re so much fun! 😉
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lovely. beautiful.
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Thank you so much, Stacee. 🙂
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Anna, your dad sounds wonderful. Encouraging you to try two kinds of ice cream is so cute, and I love that you still have the car you learned to drive in! I’m so sorry he is no longer here. Cancer is so ugly. Owen lost his mother to cancer too. But I love that you know you will see him again. 🙂
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Thank you so much, Sadie! I’m so sorry to hear about Owen’s mother — cancer is really, really awful.:( What a wonderful day it will be when we are all together for eternity! Hey! Maybe we’ll be neighbors or can at least get to each other’s homes really quickly! 😉
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Tag–You’re it! https://fourthgenerationfarmgirl.com/2016/06/23/the-happiness-tag/
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Ahh!! Thanks Tonya! You’re so sweet! 🙂
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You’re very welcome! 😊
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Beautifully written Anna. You have a very special father daughter relationship and am sure he is blessing you from up above in heaven.😊
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Thank you so much for your kind words! You brightened my day! 🙂 Blessings to you!
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Garfield hugs and continue to love your dad in your heart always. You are in our Asian context, a filial daughter! Blessings!😊
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Thank you so much for your kind words! 🙂 Yes, my Dad will always have a very special place in my heart. Blessings to you as well!
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